Grit, Glory, Genius. A shout out to Mothers.
Mothers. Sages. Our creativity, drive and compassion all come from this collective of creative, strong and generous women who have gone before.
To know ourselves is to know, understand and revere ALL Mothers for their stories, the grit, the glory…essentially, their brand of genius.
There is such power in the recognition of our Mothers. And in the recognition that from these Mothers we all have been given the power to create anew and BE the Mothers of our own re-invention.
Whatever we want, we can have. They’ve given it to us.
Whatever we believe, we will be. They helped build us up.
Our common thread as women (and women in business) today is a love, a connection to who we really are and this crazy ability to create…ANYthing we want.
Our brand of genius is a living out of a legacy they talked about, they set into motion and they drove forward.
To Mothers everywhere who have raised consciousness, kids and our ability to create cash from businesses that feed our souls…thunderous, thunderous applause.
Michelle, what IS branding REALLY
My client Salenta Fox from Utah during her haute photography session
We’re big on humanizing branding here at MGI…
So what if I told you a brand is you and brand-ING is you in action.
Branding is a verb.
It is the act of creating a look and feel to your business that works to shine brightly to usher ideal clients to you. You brand is your beacon!
In creating a look and feel that is consistently authentic to you and hot (Haute!), you are truly able to magnetize ideal clients to you. And, best of all, experience the joy of actually helping them as only you can do with your gifts and your expertise.
The photo above is of a client of mine for the last two months ~ the beautiful Salenta Fox. We created not only her logo, social media graphics, rocking tagline, elevator pitch, website overview etc but discussed how to truly communicate her brand via photography. Success! How haute is that photo? And there are so many stunning ones that truly express her role in pioneering the limitless relationship dynamic (her tagline). To check out Salenta Fox International’s facebook page and see what this means, enjoy: www.facebook.com/salentafox.
In our time together, we have also dug many hours deep into the WHY she was starting this business (read: knowing what your purposeful message is key!) and we have also been discussing how to continue to accomplish standing out authentically throughout her remaining touch-points. (of course, when you’re pioneering a category it’s a much easier job to stand out too…something that would have only come out having done this archaeological dig on her business and vision for it!)
Salenta is doing a GRAND job embracing her brand and it makes me extremely happy to showcase her energy here today!
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More you, more sales.
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Put more skin in! 
What to do at a networking event ~ and all LIFE events.
And I don’t mean LISTEN to the keynote (though they are important and probably why you paid to be there), I mean listen, truly listen to the person in front of you. You may have known them for two minutes at a networking event or twenty-two years but…listen.
Many times, we’re quite frankly relentless with the focus on our agendas, our programs and our story that we forget to be present with the human being that is sharing themselves in front of us; sharing of themselves in front of us.
What is LIFE if not about connections (read: beyond social media), relationships and being in relationship? Business is no different. And neither are those two minute networking event moments…
Don’t pose, be.
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Haute.
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Take one path, one path at a time…
Last week, I pumped my own gas. And I was excited. Can you imagine?
I was excited.
It might sound crazy but I was in full gratitude for this seemingly annoying or smelly task as for the better part of 2011 and into 2012 I wasn’t able to do it.
Bi-lateral arm issues prevented me from doing much of anything. Imagine my surprise for everything that was just starting to blow-up, my business, book-writing (hello Dragon Dictation) my yoga teacher training…
And then add in all the other things we enjoy on a daily basis with the use of our arms ~ tickle-fests with offspring, hugs, cooking and I could go on…and yes, they all were extremely painful.
Life and work had changed dramatically and for the first time I had no control. (If you’ve never felt this way physically, I’m sure there are daily professional, even family moments, where this is true. After all, this is the human experience).
To search out a resting place of healing, I eventually stuck to one way. Better yet…one path. However, at the beginning, I tried more healing modalities than could fit on your computer screen. I tried more new foods, natural remedies and met more doctors than I have probably seen in all my life. I drank enough water daily for three city blocks and breathed like a champ/a good little yogi!
After a solid try down the crazy lady path (the path of trying it all) for no other reason than maybe pure exhaustion, I eventually came back to one way which I like to call surrender.
Surrender feels amazing!
Surrender; what is it? Well in life or business, surrender is a coming back to ourselves. A place where we, in essence, regain focus and remember we have the answer.
This is how we’re able to hear more of what we truly want; what will nurture us not only back to health but to our full potential; to crazy success.
And maybe you’ve been there…it’s difficult to know how we truly feel, physically or emotionally, if you’re chasing seventeen different solutions (chasing being the operative word here).
Looking outside in all directions whenever we’re in a crisis of sorts may be natural, however, rarely is what the doctor ordered.
During these times we remain stuck, unclear, even more exhausted and burdened ~ the opposite of our desired effect. Not the ideal environment for the birthing of continued success…
And where I remain in total gratitude is in this next sentence: I knew this. We all know this: focus creates and IS the ideal environment for health. Not only in our bodies but in our businesses. And not only in our businesses but in our families…
And I suppose the real lesson here is that our authentic (ultimate) health and happiness lies not in trying it all, dabbling or turning every stone, but in focus ~ dear little old, you-get-very-little-attention FOCUS…
Take one path, one path at at time...
Short + Sweet Self-Care!= Success
Being the Mother of your own re-invention in business AND in life starts with the above action. Short + Sweet = Success.
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Branding yourself happy (and connected).
I was in New York for various meetings (and a little bit of fun) last week.
Getting out is a going in; it works wonders every single time.
It was a great time!
New York. Photo from the back of Mario Andretti’s taxi.
The anonymity that comes with travel has always sparked a clarity and creativity in me that, in my opinion is unparalleled (travel and creativity are linked; a study). Come to think of it, this is why I’ve been inspired to pick-up and move six times in ten years (yes, you read that right).
I love change, I dig re-invention and live for getting out to see the world and its people (our people, really) and I find great value in sharing all of this with my family. The above illustration shows all the cities we’ve lived since 2001.
In my time on the planet, I’ve come realize that at the core of humanity is a desire to be seen. Really being seen. We hear the words unconditional love or respect used to describe this phenomenon. The ways we get there (to really see someone), of course, are taking the time, being focused on repeating that time taken and ~ as often as we can ~ truly being in the moment.
The way we are seen is by showing more of who we are, no matter what. No matter what we think someone will feel or say about us. No matter what our very own judgements or conditioning says (and no matter how loudly the mind screams it).
Being seen, of course, is not about the limelight, a stage or a being behind a camera. It’s about being seen for all that we are and for the value this brings; the positive ripple effect our uniqueness has on all come into contact with. You (yes you) have touched so many lives, personally and professionally. And there’s probably so many more you don’t know even know about yet…
Branding, in fact, is about that; seeing the whole you. And touching others with your true and meaningful story. I like to say branding helps you be seen for how haute you really are; the true value you bring.
Our connection with our humanity and that around us, no matter if traveling afar, under our own roof or while sitting across from a client is about doing this: seeing the whole person. Taking the time to slow down enough produces a magic that not only fosters individual happiness but, in turn, a collective peace in the world. Mother Theresa said that in order to grow world peace we needed to go home and love our families. It’s true. And I’d add seeing people for all that they are versus just a sum of their moving parts.
Helping a woman brand herself/her business, in my opinion, is creating this space. Helping unlock her authenticity, go public with it (can you imagine) and communicate it throughout all she does (can you IMAGINE). giggle
This process, at the core, is a coming back to self most marketing or branding experts don’t discuss. It’s something that, back in my advertising days, wasn’t discussed either. Though branding huge corporations “human” is done all the time, the conversations weren’t exactly like the one here. I do feel, however, branding is more about self-development, visibility and expression than it is about sales, growing a business or helping you with your marketing. It does those things too but it’s deeper than that. (we don’t call it an archaeological dig for nothing)
So, how to brand yourself/how to be happy (they’re one of the same):
• Gives ourselves permission to be ~ tada ~ ourselves.
• Practice/DO the unique act, over and over again.
• Grow the ability ~ being able to then work, act, talk, write from this powerful place no matter the situation or pull is to be different or fit within the box society creates for us.
If you own a business, here are three things you can do right now to create a more haute, heartful and human brand; one that connects with your ideal audience in a meaningful way. If you don’t have a business, here’s how to be happy and how to have better, more rewarding relationships:
• Share your story…not just on a static page on your website but often and in different times (and often) on your blog and newsletters.
• Find out what that authentic yet slightly unexpected you “thing” is. You’re an acupuncturist who is a foodie: that’s not unexpected, per say, but if you’re a lighthearted, funny and sarcastic tell-it-like-it-is acupuncturist like a recent client of mine, you could call yourself “the doc with bite” and use that unexpected piece about yourself to then create all the copy and design pieces for your brand.
• Share your pain. A level of honesty and relate creates connection points that genuinely and authentically move your ideal clients closer to you…whether it’s opting into your list, picking up the phone to call for a consultation or deciding to work with you.
It’s so easy to get sucked into the “professional” trap; only say or do this, only share that much and the same goes with our personal lives, sometimes even with close friends. We don’t allow a richer connection to be created when connection is what brands us happy…successful.
Get out of your head; get out of your own way, be yourself.
And this brings us full circle to travel. Travel help us do this. It helps us tune into more of who we naturally are and what we’re authentically searching for in life.
Authenticity is definitely the new black. Haute!
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Faith is your shot of wheat grass…
Make faith in yourself your religion…
Faith in ourselves as entrepreneurs and business-owners is vital. In fact, if you’re visual like me, I see a shot of wheat grass, espresso, cup of joe or cup of fresh-squeezed OJ going in…
We must drink it in (faith in ourselves, our power) every single day.
Particularly, every single morning because tuning into this faith is the life juice to getting what we want. It’s the life juice in growing our businesses… (and by the way, if you’re wondering if you can grow the business/brand to what you want…yes, yes you can!).
If this faith doesn’t exist first thing, the glass will continue to seem half empty all day long (that’s a long day). What you think about not only grows but attracts more of the same.
What you think about not only grows but attracts more of the same.
The way we get there:
First, recognize what you’re currently waking up thinking..”What am I thinking about right now?” It’s the seed that grows.
Second, if you don’t like the answer, ask yourself, how do I shift this? And ~ stay long enough to hear the answer…
Take action immediately.
What are you waking up drinking in? (tip #11 in this video series shares a similar topic: http://bit.ly/GMKL2y)
What would you like to feed and grow in you versus what’s been your drink of choice lately?
Good.
Now, let’s hit repeat on that question and awareness each morning; drink it in. Get your groove on.
